What do I do? 4yrs just gone :,(?

I don't want to make this really long so.... Basically we were dating for 4yrs everything was good had our plans about one day getting marriied and have a family, but the last yr was really bumpy going through lots of Lil dumb fights, so he went to vist his family in his country he is currently still there. He was only going to be there for two months, we were great but after he left it was super hard because I was alone and paying the bills and stressed out etc. So we would talk every two days, but I always started and said ong you don't miss me, or little baby stuff cuz I felt alone. So he said he was feed up etc, and he broke our relationship. We didn't talk for a wk in half and he was still cold and bitchy on the phone saying : it's ****** over, how clear can I be, it's over!! And saying go our sepreat ways. Etc and he's coming bak in 2 wks but I feel that it's really over I don't want to loose him and I'm so sad and hurt cuz I love him!!! I want to fight for our love but I can just feel that he dosent care about, I called him and ask if he had thought about things and got all MADD and defensive, I asked him if he loved me and said no. Really cold :( it hurts me soo bass cuz he has never been this way with me, and just cuz he went back to his country on vac, threw our 4yrs away pliz advice on what to do??? When he gets back??? Call him?? I want to fight but whats the use if he already gave up. He is Ma first love. And it's so hard cuz Ma family loves him too. Idk what to do?? It hurts me soo bad to take the pics off Ma facebook and stuff :( idk pliz guys anything it's soo hard :,(